The Soul Project

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Jenni

Wife, daughter, sister, aunt, friend, nurse. I try to see the light even in the darkest times. I value kindness. You never know what others are facing. My worst day was November 22, 2019, the day I was diagnosed with triple negative breast cancer at 27 yers old. It's hard to come to terms with a cancer diagnosis but even more challenging to know I am BRCA 1 +, meaning I'm predisposed to an increased lifetime risk of breast and ovarian cancer. However, I strive to always see the good and take it one day at a time. There are amazing moments within each day, whether it be taking a walk in the sunshine, grabbing lunch with friends or simply catching up on shows with my husband. I now realize those little moments are a gift. I don't feel defined by my cancer diagnosis. In a way it's stripped me down to my most authentic self and has helped me grow as a human. I underwent a double mastectomy in December. While I'd love to say this hasn't made me insecure, that would be a lie. Having a part of your body removed and replaced with something foreign has proven to be the most difficult part of this journey. I'm grateful for the advancements in reconstruction surgery but still wish my body felt like my own. In the end, I know that I'm not defined by what my body looks like but by what I project outward from my heart. I love my heart, I have a lot of love to give. I wish there was more positivity in this world - less fear and anxiety. Having a positive mindset can make all the difference in how you deal with any obstacle. I feel most alive when I'm surrounded by the people I love, they lift me up when I need it most. My husband is my high school sweet heart and best friend. The day I married him was the best day of my life. Happiness for me, comes from sunshine, love, and a grateful heart. In 10 years I hope to be healthy and free from the burden of cancer. I am excited about my future. I am positive and strong. I'm proud of my ability to share my story. There is such strength in vulnerability and the world needs more of it. I am Jenni. I am RESILIENT and I love to make the most of each and every precious moment.