CLARA
SheBreathes, Walpole MA
Spirit in a physical body, Caribbean woman, mother, partner, daughter, friend, women's coach, strategist, author, speaker. My gift is my ability to help people see possibilities that they couldn't see for themselves. My worst day was the day my house caught fire - I lost all my material possessions. I didn't know when I would smile or take a deep breath again, but I did. I am resourceful, loving & spiritual. I have often felt not good enough, especially in the workplace -often being either the youngest or only woman of color at the table. I tend to go into isolation when I’m consumed by my own challenges. I struggle to ask for help for fear of being seen as weak or incapable. Physically, I’m insecure about my stomach but I believe insecurities are an opportunity to show yourself extra compassion. I love my eyes & my lips. I'd tell a 12 year old me to give herself permission to explore all things she loves- that this world is beautiful & she doesn't need anyones validation. My best day was college graduation. So much had to happen for me to get there. It felt like a dream having my mother and grandmother there. I wish there was more understanding in the world & less oppression and separation. Success is the pursuit of the heart's desire for the good of all. Happiness is a decision; a positive state of mind, body & soul. Beauty is God expressing herself through all things - there is beauty in everything. A strong romantic relationship is rooted in friendship, self love & selfless love. I've learned that I am responsible for my happiness, feelings & energy. I am excited about finding my new home and going deeper into my coaching & women's empowerment work. In 10 years I hope to be happier, even more peaceful & with my own retreat center in a warm country doing what I do now but more in depth. I am blessed & honored to live this life! I am proud of my ability to trust & have faith in a higher power and in people. It takes a lot of courage to do that in the world we live in. I don't have all the answers - I don't have it all together but I am willing to work on making things better. I am Clara and I value peace, love & family. I love to see the beauty in all things.
