Jen

Single mother, entrepreneur, personal wardrobe stylist and a champion for self-care and acceptance. As a child I was fearful, secretive and dealt with toxic shame. I was told I wasn't good enough, that I was not smart enough and not pretty enough. I was told I was fat and ugly and that no one would ever love me. But I've proved that I am loved, I am more than what they saw. I've struggled to stay positive - I’ve struggled with PTSD and depression for years. Surrounding myself with good people, from my treatment team to my amazing family and friends helps. In a way my diagnosis has helped me to be a more empathetic human being. I understand what it means to live with mental illness. I'd tell a 12 year old version of me that she'll make it through, to hold onto hope. I wish there was more compassion in the world and that people could listen more and judge less. I've been let down in relationships but I know that I am strong and that I don't need a partner to be happy. I can make my own happiness. In 10 years I hope to be at peace in my life, feeling secure and triumphant over my own personal barriers. I'm proud that I did everything I could to make sure my sons had a better childhood than I did - one without fear and shame, one with a sense of pride and purpose. I may have my challenges but I rise above every time. I am Jen. I am amazing at what I do for people. I am Creative, worthy and proud. I love to help people believe in themselves. I am a survivor and I am worthy.